Does flirting with a guy on the dance floor make you a slut?

Dance (Photo credit: Nuno Duarte)

You’re at a work and dinner dance, you’ve had a few drinks, and the ratio  of men and women is 1 to 3. You notice a client sitting alone, you ask him to join you and your group to  the dance floor. You laugh and groove as your body absorbs the beat. You’re all charm and so are the men.

You have two children with the man you’ve been with for the last 20 years, you own a house together, plus you’re on your second dog, it’s not a lifetime, but it’s a commitment through the good times and bad. You’re done the distance, and yes that even includes a long-distance relationship due to work commitments.

You’re not interested in other men, sure you notice a good looking guy, but that’s all it is, a quick look of admiration. But here you are laughing, chatting and dancing with other men and your partner is in another city. Are you doing anything wrong?

Questions swirl later the next day when lying in bed nursing a slightly sore head: Is this flirting? Is it just having fun? Being friendly? Or are you leading the men on? Can females and males be just friends? Are you are a slut?